tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3206711798546725600.post3369613613076112234..comments2023-10-10T09:07:11.973-07:00Comments on Abena's Natural Hair Pilgrimage: "Let's Talk Romance"Abena Abenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15223775583878340348noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3206711798546725600.post-20536963509511611712008-02-11T12:28:00.000-08:002008-02-11T12:28:00.000-08:00Chosen,First of all I love the pictures you have f...Chosen,<BR/><BR/>First of all I love the pictures you have for this post. I am surprised that there are not more responses. I will venture out to share my idea of romance. Mainly I loved the idea of romance and being romanced. <BR/><BR/>But I will share what I have done to be romantic (in the past). I was working from the assumption that men are VISUAL! One Valentine’s Day I gave my husband a beautifully decorated box with green sexy lingerie inside. The card attached said, “Your wish is my command!” <BR/><BR/>He was not the most romantic person, so at first he did not “get it”, and it kind of hurt my feelings. But once he found out that I would wear the outfit for him while performing three wishes for him things became very interesting. <BR/><BR/>(This was early in our marriage; I later learned that a T-shirt and a pair of sexy panties was his turn on, not “fancy” lingerie.) Wish # 1 was to watch me make some fried pork chops and mashed potatoes (I was not much of a cooker then, and this was the recipe I used to win his heart when we were “courtin’) while wearing the lingere. Wish # 2 was to watch me model the outfit (I was body shy then), and Wish #3 was to help me out of the lingerie . (smile, Smile, SMILE!) The rest…please fill in the blanks. <BR/><BR/>So essentially, find out what your husband likes and loves and give it to him in a BIG dose! Happy Valentines Day! I am going to see if I can find that book your referenced.<BR/><BR/><BR/>RJQueen10Sis. RJQueen10https://www.blogger.com/profile/07856560371534420194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3206711798546725600.post-91379498205042382792008-02-05T14:46:00.000-08:002008-02-05T14:46:00.000-08:00Chosen this is so right on time. I am working on a...Chosen this is so right on time. I am working on a 30 day prayer journal for my husband.There is a scripture and a prayer for the day. Now if that isn't romantic I don't know what is. I will keep you posted on how it goes. I would love everyone to have a copy of this. You are suppose to romance them and say positive things to them daily. I will check out the book you mentioned too. WOW, looking forward to a romantic year.Sogolocshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10277074212858188537noreply@blogger.com